Currently on his 5th wife, with rumours of affairs a-plenty, the bare facts suggest that he has not found what he is searching for.
What is clear from the bare facts alone, is that Bean struggles with long-term commitment. Note for instance, how he attains the ideal of feminine appeal by ensuring his partners are always around age 30, and swapping them for a new 30 year old after about 10 years. So, all the red flags are there, and certainly his chart holds the potential for being a VP poster child. In Bean’s case, Venus opposes Jupiter in his own domain, forming a tee-square to Pluto, this ‘expands’ the Venus-Pluto dynamic and gives a roving quality to the love-life, which is exacerbated by the multitudinous propensity of Venus in the sign of Gemini.
On the surface of things then, actor Sean Bean, whose Venus squares his Pluto by somewhere between a half a degree and two degrees (dependent on his time of birth, which is unknown) offers us a good possible study of the broad style of Venus-Pluto in hard aspect in a male chart. Every human has their cross to bear and their own unique method of carrying it, but it might serve us to look at an example. This is a worst-case scenario, and we should not use astrology to support stereotypes. When the relationship breaks down, she is labelled crazy, uptight and impossible to please. His partners lack confidence and seem to be walking on eggshells around him.
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The outward signs are harder to spot, but usually, the Venus-Pluto man has a series of failed, often rather brief relationships and appears to be more concerned with outward appearances than with inner meaning. If he succeeds, she feels worthless, if she prevails, he feels cheated. Then a long siege against the woman’s boundaries. The typical dynamic is the whirlwind romance with a man who is charming, intriguing and who holds a kind of simmering promise. At least she senses it, deep down, and the first stirrings of existential anxiety take root: miniscule and filament like at first, but destined, without keen examination, to grow formidable in no time at all. Men really do have it all their own way sometimes.Īny woman in a state of intimacy with a Venus-Pluto man, knows very quickly what she is up against. Once he’s broken her, he is then able to discard her with impunity. After all, the ideal woman should be, as Jerry Hall who has Saturn square Pluto and therefore knows a thing or two about the Patriarchy, put it, a “maid in the living room, a cook in the kitchen, and a whore in the bedroom.” The Venus-Pluto man wants it all, wants his contradictions to be conveniently at hand and gets to destroy his woman’s self-esteem for failing to live up to his impossible expectations. A woman with a surfeit of Venus-Pluto is too often identified as no good, because she does not emanate the purity and chastity which men demand she display publicly, but so very often remonstrate against behind closed doors. Very little is written about the conduct of men with hard Venus-Pluto conditions, because by a cunning sleight of the entwined hands of astrology and misogyny, women get to carry the can for that too. A Mars-Pluto woman often has that uncomfortable (for men) habit of being one of the boys, for not being overly respectful of a man’s personal space essentially for being too much like a man in a man’s world. Ironically, it is the same for those with Mars and Pluto similarly entwined. I have recently found cause to apply my thoughts to the phenomenon of Pluto’s application to Venus, not least because of the usual slew of relationship difficulties it causes for my clients, but also because the focus of attention about the combination of these powers falls on those of female gender.
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